- What is the single greatest thing about the person you are going to marry?
- When did you know that you were in love/know that this person was the one you wanted to marry?
- What does marriage mean to you? Why do you want to be a married person?
- What is the most important thing you want to promise to your partner? What is the promise you most want to hear from them? (For example, it might be really important to you to promise that you will always respect them. Or you might really want them to promise their eternal fidelity.)
- What will change about your relationship once you are married? What will stay the same?
- What is your most favorite memory of your partner?
- When you were little, did you dream of your wedding day or your future spouse? How does that vision match up (or not) with your sweetheart?